What I would like to see, is a group of young (and not-so-young) women who are willing to be sugarbabies in order to make a difference. Political sugarbabies who don't always make their objectives known.
A group of smart, passionate, intellectual women who care about public interest, and are able to separate themselves from their own interests and using money for good.
If there is such a demand for sugarbabies (and there is), the guys don't care how the money is spent. I say, use some of it for fun and maintenance, and then put the rest into a fund or organization to provide financial support for those who want to directly impact and change the structure.
Sort of a Robin Hood scheme. Taking money from the rich to give to the poor. Using whatever legal means necessary.
Of course, being good to the man, and treating him well and with respect, but then using his money to distribute to others who will work on changing laws and policies to reform the entire structure. Or using some of it to recruit more into the organization. The point isn't to bring the sugardaddy down, but the structure. Sugardaddies should all be safe from consequences of reform in their lifetimes, and enjoy the fruits of their labor and unequal distribution. And, if they do find out or know, they can feel good about where their money is going. They can make a difference and not have it affect their lifestyle.