delete

I decided to delete because while there is a happy and triumphant feel in the air after I posted this, I believe anything I try to explain even vaguely, will be misunderstood.

Also, I can say "you win" with regard to wanting you to feel that you've done a great job and should feel satisfied, but this doesn't not mean any kind of concession with regard to my son, my rights, or his rights.

I just decided to delete the whole thing because some of it is not clear and I didn't really include what I might, because it's not in confidence.